Thursday, April 7, 2011

thrifty, cheap, frugal, call it what you want

Some people think I'm a little obsessed when it comes to flyers, meal plans and lists.  Ummm, anyone watch Extreme Couponing on TLC last night?  Now, that's insane!!  I only wish we could get coupons and deals like that here.  For those of you who missed it, one family got over $1800 worth of groceries for around $100!!!The coupons available in Canada don't seem to compare to those in the States.

We have been a single income family of five for over a year now.  We've been able to do this because we watch what we spend, including groceries.  I actually enjoy a good deal and take great satisfaction in knowing I've saved us some money. 

I take pleasure in going through all the flyers and making lists of what's on sale.  From there I determine what we're going to eat for the week.  Some people have asked how can I know what we feel like eating on any given day.  The answer is simple. We can't afford the luxury to not. 

If we bought our groceries daily based on what we wanted to eat on a whim we would end up spending more.  More time in the grocery store, more waste, more money...  and we'd eat out a lot more!  We don't have time to waste in the evening trying to figure out what's for dinner.  My brain turns to mush around that time, nevermind trying to plan a meal with kids going crazy! That does not appeal in the least!!

I don't like having to pay full price for things, especially things that go on sale regularly.  Meat is the perfect example.  We don't buy meat unless it's on sale.  When it is, we buy in bulk and freeze it in individual packages.  Therefore meals need to be planned so, if it's necessary, the meat has a chance to defrost.

The challenge I'm feeling lately has more to do with our choice to try and buy more local foods and eat healthier.  We do very little shopping in the middle of the grocery store, shopping the outer edges for fresh fruits, veggies, dairy and meat. We're trying to eliminate most of the pre-packaged processed crap.  We're trying not to buy anything
  • where some form of sugar is listed in the first three ingredients or
  • with ingredients you can't pronouce or
  • made with ingredients you don't have in your own cupboard. 
It's tough.

In our attempt to eat more local foods we would like to visit some farmers markets this summer.  However, last summer we found that often the prices at the farmers markets were quite high.  Unless you're buying a very large quantity of produce, there weren't any deals to be had.  Therefore we're in the process of planning our own vegetable garden.  We're also looking into a local program that runs from May through Sepember, that will provide you with a weekly box of local produce delivered to your door.  I digress.

I regularly check coupon websites like websaverbrandsaver and gocoupons.  These websites allow you to select the coupons that you can use and want and then mail them to your house.  I've signed also up for all kinds of savings websites like Groupon, Bargain Moose, and Wagjag.  I find you have to be careful because sometimes these websites almost entice you into spending when you wouldn't normally... because the deal might be to good to pass up.  You know what I mean?

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

after the shower

ok.  my son's been paying attention.

When I step out of the shower, Caelan already has his pants pulled up all ready for some lotion. 
 
Then we need to put moisturizer on our face.


Now how do I get it off my hands...


Time to comb your hair Mom!


That blow dryer is so loud!!


Oh wait, now you need this brush!

Such a smart boy!  Keeping Mommy in line and on schedule.

Monday, April 4, 2011

mud and puddles


This child claims she doesn't play in mud puddles and doesn't need to wear rain boots, but still... 
Sometimes I wish you still would.  It would keep you young.


This child doesn't walk or run so hasn't experienced the joy of wading or jumping in puddles, yet. 
Still he has managed to learn that muddy gravel driveways have a certain appeal for exploring feet.  Guess he does have a use for rain boots.


This child... well I would expect no less.  Mud and puddles she loves and is drawn to them like most other children.  We have a healthy ditch in our front yard and recently it was more of a pond.  I cautioned her that she didn't have a lot of room for splashing as the water was dangerously close to the top of her boots.




I was reassured repeatedly that this was understood. 
She frustratingly tells me that she's just walking in the water.
I've been your Mom for almost 8 years now and I know how this is going to turn out.   You're having so much fun and are all smiles with the sun shining down on your face.  I leave you to your water. 


The next thing I know, you're soaked.  Of course. 
Grinning.  "I fell." 
Big deep breath.  I remind myself that this is what being a kid is about.
Laughing. "I can see that." 
Sigh. 
"Please dump out your boots before you come in."
 "I think I better wring out my socks too, 'k Mom?"

Saturday, April 2, 2011

spring

Love...
warm sunny weather
open windows with fresh breezes
laundry drying out on the line
the first flowers blooming

Hate...
the dirty mucky snow that lingers behind
the mud and puddles that are so enticing to little people
resulting in many extra loads of muddy laundry
the unbelievable amount of litter that's uncovered

Friday, April 1, 2011

traditions


I may have recently been complaining about clothes not fitting as well as I'd like, but that's no reason to break with tradition, right?  Not that you'd ever mention it... but others undoubtedly will.

An impromptu quick visit was organized as we both had errands in town to do.  Time restrictions were set as we had to be home to get our beloved children off the bus.  I don't know when the tradition started but we've embraced it whole heartedly.  Who wouldn't?

Today's was a quick and easy decision as we both fell back on our old standards.  Time was limited, remember?  Not long enough to drool over 31 flavours and hmm and haw about this one or that one.

Plus we had those two small curly-blond-haired beasties with us.

Mint chocolate chip for each of us, with peanut butter & chocolate for me, and rocky road for you.  You knew my flavour and I knew yours.  Topped with hot fudge (was there any question?) whip cream, nuts and a cherry.

Love sharing this indulgence with you.